I use retroshare. gui has been designed in the age of features but me
thinks web gui might be designed in the age of user experience design.

retoshare is all in one. connection not anon but can be.... i think~

but yea it's good stuff but needs something like for example email to
get a copy of friends key so you can add a friend.

also what about torchat? easy but for a interface with spell checking
you want to manual install pidgin plugin.

so theres two suggestions

http://retroshare.sourceforge.net/
https://github.com/prof7bit/TorChat/downloads