Glue for me is tree fold :
a space time to share between pairs and a larger objective/task ahead (space/time, pairs, task). THe analysis of these tree instances determines a situation.
Organization is like thinking about the situation as a dinner, gathering food, preparing the kitchen, improvising, cooking, serving and sharing food for these people.

The prior situation evolving is made by will of the group, conditions around the group and will of the people outside the group in transformation.

Living through such a process, with body, mind and will is the glue.

:)

Campfire stories is a good example, because you got there together, someone set a center and light a fire, and if the community is there a story will pop up.
A dinner is a better example because there are many examples for it that are doomed to failure.

Art is a perfect dinner, like in "Festen" :)

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